So I developed this recipe and now I share it with you, friends. Â Because you all deserve this bit of comforting yum in your life. Â
You are so welcome.
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This one is the one I make to go along with Buttermilk Fried Chicken Tenders or Hammy Sammies or Beef Roast Sandwiches. How about Loaded Roast Beef and Bleu Sliders?  You should probably check them out!  Heck, this would make a PBJ look great.  We love to add chunks of ham and make it a full meal. Add some bacon or crab if it floats your boat! Pulled pork with onions and barbecue sauce?  Oh good heavens!
The possibilities are endless.
Our favorite combinations are a Havarti (2 c.) – Cheddar (4 c.) blend with bacon, or smoked Gouda/Cheddar with ham. Â Also, we’ve grown quite fond of next-day-leftovers* pressed flat and fried in refined (no coconut flavor) coconut oil. Crispy on the outside and hot and gooey on the inside. Â How can you resist?
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And it’s EASY. Â The only bummer is the tired hand you’ll have from grating all of that cheese.
Boil your choice of pasta (it doesn’t matter the shape, just choose one that holds all the cheesy goodness) in water salted with a teaspoon or so of kosher salt until al dente.
While the pasta is cooking, melt 1/2 c. (1 stick) of butter in a large saucepan over medium heat.  Sprinkle in 1/2 c. flour, and whisk together for 2-3 minutes to let it cook.
Add in 1/2 T. (Tablespoon) Kosher or Himalayan sea salt and 1/2 T. (Tablespoon) pepper.
(Originally, the recipe called for 1 T. each of Kosher salt and pepper, but since most readers were using table salt, the result was too salty. Â Please note that I have changed the numbers to reflect what works well as a general rule. Â Start less and add more as needed to taste. Â You can add it in, but you can’t take it out!)
Slowly pour in 4 cups of whole milk (don’t skimp here–in fact you can even use some cream) whisking as you go until smooth. Â Keep whisking until the sauce comes just to a very low boil — it will take several minutes. Â This is where it will thicken considerably. Â If you stop heating it too soon, it will not thicken correctly so whisk and heat until thickened just like in the picture at right. Â Remove from heat.
Grease a 9×13″ dish with butter and add the cooked pasta to the dish.
Over the top of the pasta sprinkle 6 cups freshly shredded Cheddar (I use white or sharp), or any mix of cheese you prefer. Just please skip bagged cheese.  Because of additives, it melts differently.  You will get the best result if you grate a block of cheese!
Pour the beautiful cream sauce over the top of the cheese and pasta and let it sit a couple minutes to begin to melt the cheese.  Then, stir the whole beautiful cheesy goodness together and make the topping. In a small skillet, melt 2 T. butter over medium heat.  Add in 1/2 c. panko bread crumbs.  Stir constantly until golden brown.  Sprinkle over the pasta and cheese.
Bake in a preheated 325 degree oven for 12-15 minutes.
Hot, cheesy perfection.
Serves 6-8 as a main dish or 10-12 as a side.
*I have received many questions regarding preparing THE Mac ahead of time.  It is my recommendation to make this fresh before serving.  Many people LOVE this cheesy goodness reheated, and love the leftovers as much as fresh out of the oven,  But because it is a cheese sauce, it can tend to separate and does not lead to optimal results if you are making it for a get together.  Of course, it is possible to make this ahead, put it in the fridge and then just add some time to your bake time, and it does taste AMAZING, but for optimal results, make it, bake it, and eat it.  :o)
For Crock Pot tips, see the very bottom of this post!
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I have tested THE Mac in the crock pot and I got some decent results! For those of you who need to buy a couple hours if you’re bringing THE Mac to an event without an oven, I found a way to work it! Make all of the elements of THE Mac — make the pasta, grate the cheese, make the cream sauce and stir it all together. Also, make the panko topping, but set this aside to add to the top before serving.
Keep this in your crock pot on low for about two hours. After that, stir it, set the temp to warm and be prepared to serve it as soon as possible since the longer it sits on warm, the more the sauce bakes in and you lose the creaminess that makes this spectacular. It still tastes delicious, but the texture definitely changes to be more like a traditional baked mac and cheese.
Please note that all crock pots are different and one that has a bit of a higher temp may dry this recipe out quicker! Keep an eye on it and be prepared to turn it down or off if needed. Again, fresh is best, but I hope this provides you an alternative if you need it!
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I have an awesome shred mix in the fridge right now that has mozzarella, provolone, sharp white cheddar and fontina. I intend to use this for the sauce then add some peas and pearl onions as well as some sauteed chicken. ..yummy
Mmmmmm….I’m drooling! How did it turn out?
OMG. I just made this and made the recipe accordingly for yes…22 people. not ONE pasta piece was left. I had four fighting to lick the bowl. You got a winner here girl! thanks for sharing! I’ll be making this one over and over!
Meaghan…I think I love you.
:o)
Meaghan-
I am making this for a party- when you say you made it accordingly for 22 people, do you mean that you doubled it? I am just debating on how much I should make- I would hate to not have enough.
Thanks!
Hi, Missy! In case Meaghan doesn’t see this, I thought I’d try and help. Will this be a main dish for 22 people, or will there be other food you are serving?
This is a keeper. easy to make and the kids really like it.
Rick…you rock! Thanks for making it and commenting! After a day of blog challenges (working on the technical side of things) I needed something uplifting! Made me happy. Thanks for that!
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! I made this with Vermont sharp and my husband almost cried with joy, as I always mess up mac n cheese, lol! Just a PERFECT recipe!
Hello, Jac! You are beyond welcome! Your comment made me grin quite a bit. I’m imagining your husband weeping over his bowl of THE Mac. :o)
Also glad to hear the directions were easy for you. Hope you find lots more good food to enjoy from our site.
Made this with half cheddar and half pepper jack for a kick…2 cups 1/2 and 1/2 and 2 cups 1% milk & loved it! I didn’t think i could tackle homemade and have it taste good…thanks for the easy steps!
I’m absolutely thrilled that you tried it and liked it! The cheeses are fun to play with to add different flavors. Good for you for mixing it up!
I used to be intimidated too, but it’s kinda hard to mess up cheese sauce and pasta!
Thanks for taking the time to comment! :o)
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Kosher salt and domestic and European sea salts are exactly the same nutrition, salt content as table salt. Check the labels.
Thank you for your comment. There are many differing opinions about different salts and a lot of info out there. I am still reading (the jury is still out), but I do believe we need sodium in a different way than what we’ve been told all along.
I lost this recipe and I’m so glad I found it here! Love following your blog! I’ll be making this soon!
Thank you so much for the kind words and taking the time to comment! Enjoy every cheesy bite! :o)
Found you on Pintrest. great mac and cheese- perfectly creamy without being too fussy and over the top! My husband has had a rough week, this was the comfort that he needed. Thanks
I LOVE when what I make can comfort someone I love. I must admit, it flatters me greatly that you tried my recipe, and makes me the happiest blogger that you took the time to compliment my recipe. Happy New Year!!
Thank you for sharing this recipe. I’m going food shopping and I am going to make this. Can’t wait. 🙂 Have a safe and happy NewTears eve.
Carol L
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Thank YOU for trying this recipe! I hope you love it as much as we do! You have a wonderful New Years’ as well! :o)
i needed a receipe just like this for my fussy granddaughter, pasta is the only food she will eat besides ice-cream, at least this is healthier than kraft dinner, thank you.
It’s ALWAYS better when you know exactly what’s in it, right, Hannah? I hope both she and her grandma love it! ;o)